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Difficult childhood
Well, it's not a requirement. Some people with happy childhoods do quite well, but it certainly is true that a lot of really driven people are driven because they're harnessing the demons of their childhood. Even Barack Obama's sentence in his memoirs, which is, I think, "Every successful man is either trying to live up to the expectations of his father or live down the sins of his father." For Elon it's especially true, because he had both a violent and difficult childhood and a very psychologically problematic father. He's got those demons dancing around in his head, and by harnessing them, it's part of the reason that he does riskier, more adventurous, wilder things than maybe I would ever do. You've written that Elon talked about his father, and that at times it felt like mental torture, the interaction with him during his childhood. Can you describe some of the things you've learned?
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Well, it's not a requirement. Some people with happy childhoods do quite well, but it certainly is true that a lot of really driven people are driven because they're harnessing the demons of their childhood. Even Barack Obama's sentence in his memoirs, which is, I think, "Every successful man is either trying to live up to the expectations of his father or live down the sins of his father." For Elon it's especially true, because he had both a violent and difficult childhood and a very psychologically problematic father. He's got those demons dancing around in his head, and by harnessing them, it's part of the reason that he does riskier, more adventurous, wilder things than maybe I would ever do. You've written that Elon talked about his father, and that at times it felt like mental torture, the interaction with him during his childhood. Can you describe some of the things you've learned?
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